My first introduction to domestic violence was when I began associating with the JWs.
While my own parents did not always get on the best, I had never seen anything remotely like that sort of thing at home;
- quite a culture shock to a boy just turned 17!
The JW lifestyle is not exactly family friendly to start with. Combine that with their attitude to women, and something has to break.
(In this particular case, the wife had definite ideas about running the show herself - and the counsel of one certain elder was that
her husband should, to quote, "clobber her" in order to establish his "headship").
Needless to say, that did a fat lot of good!
These days, I feel like kicking myself when I realize that I knew many non-JW couples who had more happy and stable marriages than most of the JWs I knew.
Bill.